Did you know that in 2024, over 3 billion wedding-related searches and 10 billion unique wedding ideas were saved globally on Pinterest? 

Looks like Pinterest was the ultimate wedding idea haven for couples who wanted their wedding to be one-of-a-kind!

However, now, in 2025, why settle for a wedding that looks like it was pulled straight from a Pinterest board?

Sure, Pintesert might have some great ideas, but why recreate someone else’s vision on a day that only belongs to you?

So, all bride-to-be, it’s time to flip the script! 

Undoubtedly, those dreamy, picture-perfect setups on Pinterest are gorgeous, but trying to replicate them can leave you more overwhelmed than inspired. 

So, let’s bid farewell to this “Pinterest stress” and uncover a style that’s authentically yours. Keep reading this blog for nine fresh wedding planning tips to create a celebration as unique as your bond!

A Bride Who Planned Her Wedding Without Pinterest!

Lindsay Talbot, a well-known writer for The New York Times, VOGUE, and other prestigious publications, shared why she didn’t lean on Pinterest when planning her wedding to Christopher Bateman, an NYC attorney. 

In an article for VOGUE, Lindsay Talbot shared that when she announced her wedding news, she was quickly bombarded with one thing: Pinterest. 

She said, 

“Whenever I mention I’m getting married, the first topic that keeps coming up is: Pinterest. I keep getting bombarded with questions like, “What’s the mood of your Pinterest board?” or being given unsolicited advice such as, “Spend a few months perfecting a Pinterest board, and then hand it over to a wedding planner. 

Citing the reason of steering clear of Pinterest, Lindsay said, 

“I have no interest in Pinterest. I get that every bride wants her wedding to stand out and be special, but maybe making decor decisions based on what everyone else has already re-pinned into a state of viral overkill isn’t the best way to go about it. The virtual pin-world seems like fertile ground for peer-pressuring people into unattainable ideals of perfection—from the impossible to the downright puzzling.“

Wanna know what she did to make her wedding feel more personal than Pintersest-perfect? 

• Forgoing digital perfections, Lindsay opted for hand-pressed wedding invitations.

• Lindsay avoided the pressure to replicate popular trends by not creating a Pinterest board.

• Drew ideas from authentic wedding traditions, such as elegant 1940s bridal decor and simple outdoor ceremonies.

• Planned to embrace timeless elements like tall sterling-silver candlesticks and cascading bouquets.

• Prioritized unique touches like flower girls and page boys instead of bridesmaids and groomsmen.

• Instead of browsing social media platforms, she turned to trusted publications and historical references for ideas.

If you want glimpses of what her incredibly iconic, Pinterest-free wedding looked like, Check it out here! You will be amazed! 

9 Tips to Curate Your Wedding Style Beyond the Pinterest Buzz

1. Bring to Light What You Love

Firstly, and most importantly, discover the things you and your partner love and want the same in your wedding! 

For instance, if you both are movie buffs, why not consider going for a cinematic wedding theme? Have a heartful connection with nature? Plan an outdoor ceremony in the wild or an indoor garden-themed wedding! Insane music lovers? Skip the DJ and go for a live band performance. Wanderlust couple? Include maps or globes as part of the decor!

By bringing in what you love will not only guide your choices but will also help make your wedding feel true to you.

2. Co-Plan Your Dream Day Together

Don’t leave it all to one person; the best weddings are a result of teamwork. After the engagement, when you start visualizing your wedding, do it together with your partner. 

From finalizing the color of flowers to going for cake-tasting, involve your partner in every decision. After all, this day is about celebrating your love and both of your tastes.

If he is a foodie, try to incorporate items he loves in the food menu. Or, let’s say one of you loves beaches while the other prefers a vintage aesthetic—why not blend both styles into a beautiful hybrid wedding theme? This is something only you both can do and not Pinterest! 

3. Your Wardrobe Says a Lot About You

American actress Sarah Jessica Parker wore a black wedding dress by Morgane Le Fay when she wed Matthew Broderick in 1997. Kaley Cuoco, another American actress, chose a lace Tadashi Shoji jumpsuit for her 2018 wedding reception with Karl Cook.

If they didn’t carry a bridal look pulled straight out of the “Pinterest magazine,” you also have a choice to do the same! Take a moment to look at your wardrobe for clues about what you prefer in terms of color, fabric, or style, and let it guide you to finding your beautiful wedding dress.

4. Step Away From the Scroll

Take a break from Pinterest or Instagram because scrolling endlessly for hours can blur your vision for the wedding. Let your imagination run free- no screens required! 

You’ll find thousands of mind-blowing pictures on Pinterest, but trying to blend them all together can result in a wedding that feels more like an imitation of something. We believe this is definitely not something you are seeking!

Try to switch up your inspiration sources- flip through family wedding albums, ask your friends for opinions, draw inspiration from your favorite book, or whatever suits you! Let the creativity flow naturally offline.

5. Create a list of “Things that Can’t Be Skipped”

This will make your planning process super easy! Pen out your non-negotiables! These are the elements of your wedding that must be included because they hold deep meaning for you.

Whether it’s a family heirloom, a song, a specific food item, unique wedding favors, a decor item, or even a live painter! A list of these can't-miss items will help you stay focused while adding meaning to your epic day! 

6. Ditch the Concept of “Lavish Venue”

It’s not mandatory to pick those lavish Pinterst-inspired venues for your wedding! Unless it’s your choice, we recommend picking a venue that feels more personal to you! 

Imagine exchanging vows at the place where you first met. Or, hosting a beautiful ceremony in your home’s cozy living room? Or, maybe it’s the art gallery where you had your first date or a beach you visit every summer. 

Sounds mesmerizing, doesn't it? So, instead of going for those grand venues, focus on the place that holds meaning for you as a couple! 

7. Create a Vision Board, Not a Copycat Board

Create a board, definitely, but not the one that looks Pinterest-inspired! Pinterest is amazing for sparking ideas, but eventually, it’s easy to get stuck in a loop of copying what’s already been done. And you surely don’t want that, do you?

So, craft your vision board by pinning elements that are true to your essence. Rather than appearing like a template, your bridal board should be a creative playground, consisting of the colors you like, the dress inspirations, hair & makeup styles, bridesmaid attire ideas, decor elements, etc. 

8. Forget Trendy, Choose Timeless  Decor

The show-stopping Pinterest decor ideas can make every bride feel like her wedding should be magazine-worthy! It should have magnificent arches, trendy signage, and curated table setups.

But what about your idea of decor?

Use Pinterest as a starting point, but avoid blindly replicating the images you see. No wonder photo booth walls, neon signs, donut walls, geometric centerpieces, etc., carry an irresistible allure. 

However, timeless elements like candlelit tables, simple floral arches, crystal chandeliers, silver/gold accent cutlery, etc., are some iconic elements that can make any wedding look extremely classic. 

9. Hire a Wedding Planner

If planning seems a hassle, you can go with a wedding planner who can patiently understand your vision and turn your chaos into calm. Research, ask for recommendations, check their work, and let them bridge the gap between your unique vision and practical reality. 

Wrapping it Up- Your Wedding, Your Rules!

Don’t you believe Pinterest is like that overenthusiastic friend who always has ideas, but sometimes, they just don’t vibe with your style? That is why we got you this blog, covering nine practical tips to make your wedding feel like a reflection of you!  

Forget Pinterest's “must-haves” and trends that everyone is following. Whether it’s a non-traditional dress, a backyard ceremony, or vintage-inspired decor – whatever you choose, remember, this day is yours!

Celebrate your love your way!